Drawing the line between Faith and Reality

I went to a gift and interior décor shop to get a table last week. The owner and I eventually got talking about business challenges and cash flow issues, especially for capital intensive businesses like interior décor stores.

Without any exaggeration, the worth of the items in her store couldn’t be less than 5 million naira because we all know how expensive a single glass decoration or table can be.

In the course of discussion, I realised how hardworking and dedicated this woman was, and I knew she was into a very risky venture. I asked myself “what if she loses all these?”

So I said to her “I hope this place is insured sha,” expecting to hear the usual “yes of course. Why won’t it be?”

The way she hesitated and looked at me confirmed my worst fear when she said “Not really. You know, there is SPIRITUAL INSURANCE!”

Someone please slap me now.

Here is this gigantic interior décor store that takes the expanse of a whole flat with massive investment, plus another warehouse of another flat where we went to carry the items I bought, completely uninsured. And she says spiritual insurance.

I didn’t enter the warehouse to carry my items because someone did that for me, but I knew for a fact that it was even worth more than the store I was standing in. So this is a minimum of 10 million we are talking about. I am absolutely sure it is more than that because she has so many items, much more than you can imagine.

I asked her how much insurance would cost her annually, and she said N200,000 (two hundred thousand naira). I spent a quarter of that in her shop, and I know that she makes far more than that in a day. I said “excuse me ma, go and do insurance please.” I said I don’t want an incident that would be causing her to say “had I known.” I said “I think you should transfer that risk now, as soon as possible. This is to big for it not to be insured. Just too big. I am not an insurance agent, and I am not gaining anything from this so just take it as an important piece of advice which you must implement on immediately.”

After mentioning some cash flow issues, she said she would do the insurance. To be honest, I don’t know if she would do it. Even if she does it, she didn’t sound like someone who would do it soon, as she doesn’t see the urgency in it.

I didn’t want to outrightly tell her that “what if your store burns down” so that she wouldn’t say I wish her evil. I could see that her pastor and church sticker was on her entrance door so I was sceptical to talk anyhow to people who use spiritual insurance.

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Now, don’t get me wrong. I am a Christian. Anyone who reads this blog knows that. I pray every day, read my bible every day, etc. Many times, I am engaged in church activities from Friday night to Sunday afternoon. So I don’t think I am really qualified to be called a sceptic or an atheist, though some people would rather label me that because I dare to speak against how some churches are bad neighbours by disturbing people with their loudspeakers at night, in the name of night vigil and stopping people from entering their houses by blocking their gates in residential areas - as if that is what Jesus died for. Anyway, that is another topic on its own because I am sure you can tell how pained I am by this menace.

So my question is this. Do people shun insurance cover because they are Christians? In simple words, should we or should we not insure heavily invested businesses because we have prayed, and covered our businesses with the ‘blood of Jesus’?  When fire outbreaks, flood, natural disasters or robberies occur, is it that the blood of Jesus or spiritual insurance is not at work in that business? Does using insurance cover for your business display a lack of faith?

I know comments here can get controversial because we live in a highly religious society, but let us carefully examine this matter, respecting those who have chosen to solely stick with spiritual insurance and those who have decided to walk by sight by paying the insurance companies.

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  1. YES! It's called "Christianese" and honestly, sometimes when I frown at it, people look at me like I don't believe in God. Let me give you an example. During the ebola scare in Nigeria, some of the officials went around to raise awareness. Someone came to our church to give a talk and called out the number to call if you or anyone had symptoms. That's how the chick next to me said, "Oh please, call which number. JESUS IS THE CURE FOR EBOLA! I will NEVER have it. Even if I walk in the middle of Ebola patients, I won't catch it and die. I'm a Christian, so I can't die from Ebola." I looked at her like "girl, you may be a little cray." I asked her whether she's trying to say that out of the thousands that had died in other countries, Nigeria included, there was not 1 single Christian? She said she didn't know but that all she knows is she's a Christian and can't catch Ebola.

    Yes, every time I've seen her since then, I've given her the side eye.

    Berry Dakara Blog

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    1. Let's not talk too much. Let her just go and share a bed with an ebola patient then come and testify. Lol.

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  3. Very interesting. It is important to apply wisdom to life. Knowledge becomes powerful when we apply wisdom in decision making.

    James 1:5 (NKJV) If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.

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    1. Lol. Your scripture reference is very 'diplomatic'.

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  4. Faith has a balance and that balance is wisdom. Even God told Joseph and Mary to run away with Baby Jesus to avoid Herods Massacre! Being Born again doesn't mean we should not use our brain again!

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    1. Omo, see rhymes by saintrhymes. Born again, brain again. High five.

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  5. WOW! We are both in the 'spirit' Ailola! I just updated my blog with something similar, and decided to check your blog because I know you update every Monday...but knowing you, you won't touch my topic with a 10ft pole! Yes oo, Ailola, I know you smalL ... so prove me wrong then! #smirking#

    Anyways, to your topic at hand...an interesting one by the way...not controversial but the blunt truth ... so you don't need to explain to anybody you are a Christian. Everybody knows who and what they are. JESUS said, give unto Cesar what belongs to Cesar ... he was talking about people paying their tax of course, regardless, they were HIS disciples. if well analysed, HE was implying we should do the physical things that are needful for our survival and safety... and leave the spiritual for GOD.

    When lucifer asked JESUS to jump from the highest mountain top ... what did HE tell lucifer? DO NOT TEMPT THY LORD THY GOD!

    You see, we perish for lack of knowledge. The church and congregation is like the 3 blind mice who follows a blind cat to cross the road! I once said in my FB that the god of men put their followers under bondage with their preaching for selfish purpose while they don't practice their own teachings! And enjoy their freedom under the cloak of Grace!

    They believe as long as you are a tither, you are insured! When it happens, they will find the 'witch' in their household or family lineage who is responsible for their downfall! Yet! We see unbelievers flourishing, because they are shrewd and use common sense, why Christians will be enriching their pastors pocket, and expecting abracadabra to happen to make their business boom or avoid risk.

    JESUS said, we should be gentle as a dove, but wise as a serpent.

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    1. Sorry Madam, just a little balance here! I think your comment was too harsh on Pastors because of other peoples lack of common sense. Tithing has its place! And everybody pays tithe...(I spare you that).

      Let's stay in the context of the discuss. Faith and wisdom! Thanks

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    2. I want to hug you for this comment, it's so spot on!

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    3. @Ada: Who are you hugging? Saintrhymes of Nitty Gritty

      @Nitty Gritty: I have read your post and commented o, lol. I believe in rendering unto Ceasar that which belongs to him, just like Jesus advised. I guess this woman is not doing that because insurance is not compulsory in Nigeria. And yes, she is tempting God. Your reference is spot on. I pray her business remains safe.

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    4. Hugging you back Ada. Thanks for the comment in my blog.

      Saintryhme, stay in context? I have never gone out of context with Ailola posts.And I am not ready to go into the talk of tithing... The matter no go finish foLike the old saying... A rotten apple spoils the whole barrel is apt in this case. I have

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    5. Scratch 'fo' and 'I have' I mistakenly pushed the publish button. ... So as I was saying sir saintryhme, I only respect one man of GOD in Nigeria, and that is Pastor Adeboye... For by thy fruits he shall know them! Thank you sir!

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    6. Scratch 'fo' and 'I have' I mistakenly pushed the publish button. ... So as I was saying sir saintryhme, I only respect one man of GOD in Nigeria, and that is Pastor Adeboye... For by thy fruits he shall know them! Thank you sir!

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    7. Hugging you back Ada. Thanks for the comment in my blog.

      Saintryhme, stay in context? I have never gone out of context with Ailola posts.And I am not ready to go into the talk of tithing... The matter no go finish foLike the old saying... A rotten apple spoils the whole barrel is apt in this case. I have

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    8. Ok! I understand ma...God heal the church

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  6. Oh well, Humans will always be humans....I wouldn't even bother saying or asking if her store was insured...I mean what is my damn business? Oh well, like I said, humans will always be humans.

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    1. I took the liberty to ask her cos I have a good business relationship with her, as per I am her regular customer, and she was lamenting to be about her cash flow issues. Maybe I shouldn't have asked. I am wiser now.

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  7. I'm sure her "spiritual" insurance isn't free either, her pastor must be getting paid to stand in the gad. Wisdom wisdom wisdom... people indeed perish for lacj lack of knowledge.

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    1. Looolll. She attends one of the most popular churches in Nigeria (the sticker is on her door). She's definitely a tither, like many of us, but I don't know if she pays her pastor o. I doubt because it is all these mega churches.

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  8. Nigerians and spiritual insurance...this is just sad and I hope she heeds your advice.

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    1. I hope so too. She told me she would do the insurance, but I wasn't convinced.

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  9. Like Lohla said the spiritual protection isn't likely to be free. On the flip side we have a general mistrust for insurance in this country, insurance companies haven't been so reliable over the years. I know several people who didn't get their claims after paying their premiums faithfully.

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    1. Really? Thankfully, I have not had to deal with insurance companies sha. My friend's house got burnt when I was in secondary school, and within months, the house was back up with every single thing they lost being restored. I was wowed.

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  10. Faith is different from foolishness. The bible says "wisdom is profitable to direct" Ecc10:10

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    1. Help me tell them o. It is as if they forget the 'direct' part, lol.

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  11. Sykik said the first thing that came to my mind as I was reading the post. Wisdom is profitable to direct!! There is a reason the bible tells us in all our getting we should get wisdom. Insuring a business doesn't dilute ones faith level , it is actually wisdom. There is faith and there is works... faith without works is dead- Bible. Another thing is information and knowledge, some people don't take the extra precautionary steps in insuring their businesses cos they don't know much about it or understand how it works. So they cling to the only one they know..spiritual insurance. Am not saying that's her case though.

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  12. Spiritual Insurance? Never heard that. Lack of wisdom indeed. I wouldn't have even asked as it would be expected that she would have insured the store nah.

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  13. Sigh. Please what Sykik and Nitty said. Faith should not erode common sense. Fini

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  14. For her to be that comfy she must have some sort of spiritual insurance where she has been assured that her shop can never get burnt. Unfortunately its coincidence that a fire has not razed her shop and not due to her spiritual insurance. Guess she doesn't want to pay to both man and spirits... lol

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  15. I hold a CIIN and i have spoken to a number of persons about insurance and their reply is usually thr same. "Jesus is my insurance" Sometimes i feel like i wasted my time and money to accquire that with the sort of society we live in. We will get there, hopefully.

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